To be overwhelmed by it.

Do not get upset because of your misery, your weakness, your shortcomings. Jesus "bears" you with love, and should it be different from how He does it? The main thing is to let yourself be overwhelmed by Him. Tell Him to do in you the things that you are to do. Continue to be as if a place through which His actions and effective grace pass.

(Cardinal Charles Journet /1891–1975/, correspondence)