Do not strive for brotherly love and humility. Strive to be a vessel in which God will dwell: then brotherly love and humility will be the only possible attitudes that you will spontaneously adopt. And even if you fail to do so maybe ten times a day, always gather your strength in Jesus, without resorting to any violence or being impatient with yourself.
(Cardinal Charles Journet /1891–1975/, correspondence)